To Tell or Not to Tell...

That is the question...

There are some people I know I won't tell (at least at this point), about the infertility issues.  This, unfortunately, includes my mother.  I love her, but she wants to be so involved that she'd question me daily about the status of it all, which would drive me nuts!

I think I'll tell a couple friends who know we've been trying for a while.  But I haven't done so yet.  I'm going to try to have lunch with one on Friday.  If that works out, I'll let her know...

The only person we've told so far is my boss at work.  He signs my time-off forms (which there will be plenty of and he'll get suspicious).  He's also a very good friend, and we talk about most things, so it would be hard not to tell him.  It was funny when I told him, he started smiling and said "I thought so...".  He couldn't tell me how he knew, just said intuition.  That, plus I had two doctor appointments fairly close together and both DH and I were gone at the same time at the time of the second on (which happened to be the RE consult).  He's been hinting that we should have a baby, so maybe he was just hopeful...

So for now, I guess that's it...  Tell 2-3 and not tell the rest.